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We all have our own reasons...
We all have our own reasons... Joining this site, for me, was originally to be about exploring my sexual fantasies. And although I have been fortunate enough to do so, it has become more than that for me. I have also been fortunate enough to meet people with whom I have also found the ability to have stimulating conversations with about life in general. Everyday events are shared. Both the good and the bad, the highs and the lows. The goals accomplished, as well as the failures. I have made friends with people with whom I would not have otherwise communicated. For that I am grateful. Each of us bring our own uniqueness. Our hopes and dreams, our thoughts and desires. A friend once told me "you will not find a partner there". This could be true, it is also not impossible. Who would think you could find a partner in a grocery store line, yet it has happened for some. Here at least, we have the ability to discuss and converse with others who enjoy sexual pleasure . We don't have to try to mask it. Some of the dating sites are more closed to discussing it. This being said, I am not saying I am looking for any type of "partnership" here. Here I am forming relationships with people I feel comfortable with. To me a "partnership" is when two people decide to come together as one unit, if they decide to bring others in to that unit for sexual pleasure is their business, not mine. I have a "relationship" with my friends with whom I enjoy spending time with, whether it be sexual or platonic is between my friend and I, and no one else. I find here there are many reasons for each of us to keep coming back. For some it is to laugh and joke, to find support from others who really may not have the ability to communicate as openly except behind an anonymous nic. We don't have to expect anything from anyone. We can put forth only what we feel comfortable with. I have a great many pleasure in life, of which very few have anything to do with sexual acts. As I stated before I enjoy people. I enjoy each person for their uniqueness, for what I learn from them and hopefully they will in turn learn something from me. I do not judge people, either I enjoy being around together or I do not. I only demand one thing, respect. Have respect for who I am as a person and you will get respect in return. Don't respect me and you more than likely not have my respect. What are some of your non sexual pleasures? |
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i to enjoy fellowship with others here
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i to enjoy fellowship with others here
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Flirting outrageously even when there's zero chance for sex!
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It is a form of empty play. It is rare for ppl to meet. It is a commitment to friends without making friends or really being committed.
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I've only just started really getting to know ppl through thier blogs, and I can say it's been great...I really don't surf many profiles anymore cause a lot of fakes but the blogs I've found is a way to really connect with ppl and make friends...if your not pushy or rude. Great post Red! Look forward to reading more. I still/Wantodou2
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I've only just started really getting to know ppl through thier blogs, and I can say it's been great...I really don't surf many profiles anymore cause a lot of fakes but the blogs I've found is a way to really connect with ppl and make friends...if your not pushy or rude. Great post Red! Look forward to reading more.
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My work schedule is a little whacked so hard to find time to do much. I do what I can when I can. I enjoy time with family and friends. I love to read and write. I have recently gotten back in to photography. I really enjoy a nice bonfire with friends. I do love the beach and the water. I live not far from the beach actually. I enjoy the sound of the surf.
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Fresh out of the oven chocolate chip cookies walking barefoot on a golf course seeing someone's lightbulb light up making someone smile a good book stimulating conversation driving sports ..... Drop in and visit my blog sometime, but you'll probably regret it
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Fresh out of the oven chocolate chip cookies walking barefoot on a golf course seeing someone's lightbulb light up making someone smile a good book stimulating conversation driving sports .....
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Flirting outrageously even when there's zero chance for sex!
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Thank you for dropping by. I agree too many are in a hurry to "get laid", for me there has to be a connection, some chemistry. As I had stated earlier in a response, for me it is about quality not quantity. For me there has to be some common ground, something that draws us together. It is not about "wham bam thank you ma'am".
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Nice post. Well said !
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another one just came to mind - the smell of the air right after it rains Drop in and visit my blog sometime, but you'll probably regret it
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Nice post. Well said !
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another one just came to mind - the smell of the air right after it rains
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Hummmmm, non sexual fun. Oh redhotfun I have plenty. 1. Talking on the phone with my girlfriend and making her laugh. 2. Writing a good joke that makes me laugh. 3. Finding a penny with the wheat on the back from a store that has the little penny cup on the counter. 4. Eating something yummy that I bought from a bakery or making it myself. 5. Getting good feedback teaching a yoga class. 6. Getting good feedback teaching a Spin class. 7. I play sports more than watching sports. Tennis is my passion right now and serving an ace or hitting a winner make me "fist pump" inside. 8. Skiing down a medium difficult hill and making a turn at the right time. 9. Reading something that makes me think both fiction and non-fiction especially your blog. 10. Going to sleep with the kitchen clean and ready for tomorrow
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Hummmmm, non sexual fun. Oh redhotfun I have plenty. 1. Talking on the phone with my girlfriend and making her laugh. 2. Writing a good joke that makes me laugh. 3. Finding a penny with the wheat on the back from a store that has the little penny cup on the counter. 4. Eating something yummy that I bought from a bakery or making it myself. 5. Getting good feedback teaching a yoga class. 6. Getting good feedback teaching a Spin class. 7. I play sports more than watching sports. Tennis is my passion right now and serving an ace or hitting a winner make me "fist pump" inside. 8. Skiing down a medium difficult hill and making a turn at the right time. 9. Reading something that makes me think both fiction and non-fiction especially your blog. 10. Going to sleep with the kitchen clean and ready for tomorrow
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