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There is nothing like a Dom.........grins
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you are so wonderful to read...I feel as though i learned sometime today...very rare human that you described my dear....I know of only on Dom....and it is as you have shared in post...but now i now how to see him...in your eyes...he is all that...and in mine for sure...thanks...your great...so much to your intelligence....
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Wow. That's it...just wow. (grin)
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5/20/2007 4:12 pm |
You've described someone that I know, but I'd never thought of him as a Dom. As always, you've given me food for thought, thanks, hun... Not all who wander are lost.
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5/21/2007 1:23 pm |
Interesting...the first part of your descriptions would fit a man like myself, whom you would likely consider French-vanilla with a dollup of Greek-chocolate if the sugar is stirred right. I do have a difference with this line: "a Dom knows the beast within and allows the beast its moments...... the word allow is key" When I was a little kid, some bigger neighborhood boys showed me a comic book that had a picture of a Devil taunting a scantily clad, curvatious woman tied to a pole with flames reaching up for her. She was scared and crying and the devil character was empowered. This is how sex is viewed by many in the Western world dominated by a Christion version of God and Devil. (Architypal Doms) Really caused some confusion until I saw pictures of sexual practices from the East. Especially the statues showing all the various sexual situations adorning temples in India. There were no fires or bound "sexy" women prodded by demons. They were smiling, enjoying total communion with their lover(s). (Yes, they had 3 somes and orgies, birds trained to tweek woman's nipples, etc. ) I believe that we in the West still have this underlying phobia of sex as evil and to really enjoy it we have to allow our evil side out; after which we ask for forgiveness from a priest or a preacher or Jesus. Horse pucky I say! It is through sex that we are able to attain the highest states of consciousnes and even go beyond consciousness - experience ego-loss and get a glimpse of nirvana. How can this be associated with demons? Only through fear. The desert religons (Jews, Christians & Moslems)made sex evil probably because they knew its liberating powers. We also can create our own demons when we get close to a truth because either that truth carries pain of abuse with it or we fear it will change our wonderful whacky westernized world of staus quo to the unknown which we are taught to fear. But then again what do I know? I've never whipped a woman with a belt but I have spanked a woman who "enjoyed" it. It was an experience for me too. But as a "Spanker" and a "Spankee" we were into the timing, the pressure - the mechanics of it like craftsmen - perfecting a skill. True one needs the other for existance; like one gear moving the other, but each maintains its own boundries and their own existance. However, the experiencial communion couldn't be there because one must constantly be aware of their actions and the other's responses. In my "ideal" of lovemaking I think we're more like artists bringing out what is there to create a commonality within which we loose ourselves to the union. There are no boundries. There is no "other." There is only the unity with all. Well, that's the ideal to which I perspire. Cyber hug for you ... Or would you rather have a "whack?"
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5/21/2007 7:59 pm |
Sorry - just got the pun.
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5/22/2007 8:48 am |
I wanna meet a man like that. As you know. Where is he--the one who is smart enough to top me? LadyBGood had some interesting things to say about BDSM in my blog about [post 857930]
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5/22/2007 5:52 pm |
First time I have ready your blog and you put into words exactly what my experience has been. I am incredibly lucky that the first Dom I met from alt is exactly how you describe. A friend has gotten involved with a poser from that site and he's gotten so far into her head that he's cut her off from her true friends. I worry about her and will point her to your blog. Maybe that will help.
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Excellent post with well-deserved excellent comments. So many of the characteristics you describe are attributes of someone who's very much together in their lives as a whole, whether strictly a Dom or not. I do think that the full dimension of being a Dom is only brought to fruition by being with someone who is truly a Sub, who in turn have defining characteristics beyond simply what happens sexually. warm xx
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hmm...I like how this sounds..I am wondering though ...how does one know if that path is what they are looking for?...just wondering...*hugs*
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So well put that this girl copy pasted it in an email to Master...*grins* c
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I would like to discuss more...thank you wicked...*hugs* I had never really looked at my writing till I read this...and what your thoughts were about it...Is it possible to be the last to know? Or to see that about ones self? *hugs*
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Thank you so much!! I read your post and can't describe how it made me feel... all i can say is thanks, Glava xx Whats the difference between kinky and perverted? Kinky is when you tickle your girl friends ass with a feather. Perverted is when you use the whole chicken...
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precious, What a wonderful explanation. You have spoken with wisdom. There are many that ask why am I this way ... or what am I that way ... My only answer is this ... I believe in being consistent in whatever I do. Plainly said, above all; We respect the views of others but cease to listen when it involves negativity of "The Family" ... Extended or otherwise. I enjoyed reading the information you communicated, sugar britches. I can't think of anything worse at the moment *w* With Love - In Leather After all the sex is gone, there is the mind - Lady Hunter / BAB Copyright © House of Lady Hunter 1998-2009
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