11/2013 a few pictures updated - thank you aff for two weeks of gold
please no married men - or attached - been there done that and you all cannot give me what I am looking for. Also must be at least 45 or close, not a cougar looking to hook up with some young stud. How I might wish - smiles -- but reality folks.
Ultimately I would like to find someone to do things with. Also one never knows when that certain someone sneaks in and steals your heart - I still want to find that man to share life with/ the good and the bad - so yes if you are looking for someone caring, and able to carry on conversations, loves sex, open minded and you are open to possibly more than just sex - please write me.
Please keep in mind tho as I have aged and played ,things are different this time around tho, not looking to hook up just for sex, yes I know this is a sex site, but am hoping to have something a little more than that.
Now if you have staying power, impressive size and are over 50 well maybe :-)...
no seriously I find I need something a little more than sex now a days and may have found that right here on this site after all - well 1.5 yrs down the drain - seems Mr right that was so far away is more into men than woman and was just another man that has no clue what they want except to use a woman for a few months and then just stop all communications. whats up with that seriously - so time to re group again
As you can see I was still hopeful that he would come around - or that I may find someone that can appreciate a good woman that still loves sex at my age - hell how did I get to be so old anyway.
by the way I was in a long long relationship until cancer took him back in 2005 - 29 yrs with one man was awesome in many ways - I do miss having someone to have my back and me theirs -
borrowing this from someone else, just fits me...
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First...we chat. If that goes well
we talk on the phone...If that goes well...
we meet for a drink in a public place...If that goes well, we take it from there. Not interested in a last second hook-up before knowing if I even like you as a person.
You must be willing to meet for a drink or coffee or something before even considering doing anything else first. There has to be chemistry/physical attraction for me to play around. Please I do need a phone call to hear your voice and see if we can carry on any conversation.
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9/09 update -- have not been a paying member for awhile now - miss some of those percs. but oh well --
aff has been kind to me since 12-13 and allowing me gold membership since so many like to view me - thank you keep viewing please
Have had both knees replaced in 2009 and had that new romance - knees are good, romance is gone so here again, but with new agenda. Not here to just hump and bump anyone, want some kind of connection. Please don't email saying we should hook up, or lets meet and fuck..
I have met a lot of great people here on this site but still looking for someone to become best friends with, I lost my best friend to cancer 8 years ago and would like to find that kind of friendship again.
I am highly sensual but do not wish to jump from bed to bed, I need more than that now. If that is what you are looking for - well sorry should have met me a few years ago - :) - remember this ...just because you may take me to dinner or out for a few drinks does NOT mean I am gonna hop in the sac with you ...IT IS MY RIGHT TO SAY YES OR NO ..PLEASE RESPECT THAT !!!!! / yes I borrowed that from someone's profile
- yes this is a sex site and yes I am looking for that also but I have the choice also. It is time to look for more than that ..I may chose to just play but really desire more and who knows what will happen once we get to know each other, care to chat sometime give me a try and see where it goes from there.
I want to be able to enhance your life and you mine in all aspects.
What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
lennon, beatles, stones, zeplin, bowie, roxy music, lou
reed,
Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I have this fantacy of my man and a motor home and the open
highway - with large windows ... use your imagination as to what happens while we tool down
the highways.................
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage
Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
no -- they are too phony
Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.